عوامل مؤثر بر پایداری رابطه و رضایتمندی زوجین سازش یافته بعد از تقاضای طلاق: مطالعۀ پدیدارشناختی

نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی

نویسنده

استادیار گروه روان‌شناسی دانشگاه بیرجند

چکیده

زمینه: زوج‌هایی که بعد از تقاضای طلاق بتوانند مجددا به سازگاری برسند، ممکن است رابطۀ متزلزلی داشته باشند که نیاز است با شناسایی و تقویت عوامل موثر بر رابطه، ثبات و رضایت از رابطه را بالا برد.
هدف: پژوهش حاضر با هدف بررسی کیفی عوامل موثر بر پایداری رابطه و رضایتمندی زوجین سازش یافته بعد از تقاضای طلاق انجام شد.
روش: روش پژوهش کیفی و از نوع پدیدارشناسی بود. جامعۀ پژوهش، شامل کلیۀ زوج‌های سازش یافته بعد از تقاضای طلاق شهر بیرجند از سال 1396 تا 1401 و مراجعه کننده به مرکز مشاوره راه نو بودند. بر اساس ملاک‌های ورود به پژوهش، 7 زوج (14 نفر) به صورت هدفمند انتخاب و مورد مصاحبه نیمه ساختاریافته قرار گرفتند. فرایند انتخاب نمونه‌ها تا مرحلۀ اشباع نظری پیش رفت. داده‌های به دست آمده توسط روش کولایزی و نرم‌افزار مکس کیودا مورد تحلیل قرار گرفتند. کدگذاری داده‌ها به صورت باز، محوری و انتخابی انجام شد.
یافته‌ها: در تحلیل تجارب مشارکت‌کنندگان 16 مضمون فرعی و 5 درون‌مایه اصلی شامل ویژگی‌های فردی، ویژگی‌های تعاملی/ارتباطی، عوامل خانوادگی، عوامل فرهنگی-اجتماعی و پایبندی به ارزش‌ها شناسایی شد.
نتیجه‌گیری: بنابراین می‌توان نتیجه گرفت که مجموعه‌ای از عوامل فردی، بین‌فردی و اجتماعی در پایداری و رضایت زوج‌های سازش‌یافته بعد از درخواست طلاق اثرگذار است.

کلیدواژه‌ها

موضوعات


عنوان مقاله [English]

Factors Affecting Relationship Stability and Satisfaction in the Couples Compromising After Applying for Divorce: A Phenomenological Study

نویسنده [English]

  • Samaneh Khazaei
Assistant Professor, Department of Psychology, University of Birjand, Birjand, Iran
چکیده [English]

Background: Couples who are able to compromise again after applying for divorce may have a fragile relationship; therefore, it is necessary to increase the stability and satisfaction of the relationship by identifying the influencing factors.
Aim: the present qualitative study was conducted to investigate the factors affecting the marital stability and satisfaction of couples who compromise after asking for divorce.
Method: The research method was qualitative and phenomenological. The population included all couples who compromised after asking for divorce in Birjand City, and referred to Rah-e-No Counseling Center from 2017 to 2022. Based on the criteria already determined, 7 couples (14 people) were selected via purposive sampling and subjected to semi-structured interviews. It should be noted that the process of selecting samples continued up to theoretical saturation. The obtained data were analyzed using Colaizzi’s method and MAXQDA software. Data coding was done using an open, axial, and selective method.
Results: The analysis of participants’ experiences revealed 16 sub-themes and 5 main themes, including individual characteristics, interactive/communicative characteristics, family factors, socio-cultural factors and commitment to values.
Conclusions: Therefore, it can be concluded that a set of individual, interpersonal, and social factors influence the stability and satisfaction of couples who have compromised after applying for divorce.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • marital stability
  • marital satisfaction
  • compromise
  • divorce
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